You have been misinformed. On commercial aircraft, the thrust levers (they really aren't called throttles) are located in the center of the cockpit (the PC term being control cabin or flight deck) and may be moved by either pilot. There is only one thrust lever for each engine. Two engine airplane, two thrust levers, L and R, or sometimes 1 & 2.
If you look directly in front of each pilot, you will see the yoke which moves the flight controls. There are two, and they move together, but only in an extreme situation would you see both pilots manipulating at the same time. There is a concept of a Pilot Flying (PF) and Pilot Monitoring (PM) and only one, the PF, is actually manipulating the controls at any given time.
Only two cases come to mind where two pilots would be manipulating the controls at the same time:
1) If the PM became so concerned that the PF was making a huge error, and there was no time to talk about it the PM might grab the controls. This will almost always be the Captain, but that is not guaranteed. Even worse, the PM who grabs the controls isn't guaranteed to be right.
2) If the PF had a serious flight control issue, and needed some extra muscle power to overcome the problem. Many years ago, I had a stabilizer trim failure, and wasn't certain what the air loads would be in the flare, so I briefed my FO to be prepared to help "PULL" if I needed it. As it turned out, it wasn't necessary.
As I have often said during a brief, the only thing worse than 2 pilots trying to fly the airplane at the same time is no pilots flying the airplane.
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In some situations such as a CFIT escape maneuver, stall recovery, and for some airplanes, an engine failure, the PF will push the thrust levers forward to the mechanical stop, and the other pilot is charged with confirming that they are, in fact, at the mechanical stop. In this case, both could have their hands on the throttles at the same time.
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Truly, it is not a big deal to be whether they are called Thrust Levers or Throttles; actually I'm OK with either one. Maybe I was being a little pedantic here, but out of habit, I correct terminology. In the case of throttles vs thrust levers, I went back to the B757/B767 AFM, and found that it uses the terms interchangeably, so I will do the same, and I apologize if I offended anyone's delicate sensibilities!
On the other hand, perhaps you should lighten up a little bit. Part of the process of gathering knowledge is learning the proper terms, what they mean, and when to use them. People who ask questions here are trying to gather knowledge. Or, I suppose that we could all just start talking about that big flat thingy, you know the one that is not up and down, but side to side, you know the one on the back of the whatchamacallit. Me, I'd prefer to all it a horizontal stabilizer, stabilator, or elevator as the case may be.
License is a general term; on the other hand, a pilot certificate, category, class, and type ratings mean very specific things. A driver gets a driver's license, or permit, and a pilot gets a certificate. If in passing, someone asks me if I have a pilot's license, I will respond with a yes. On the other hand, if some here asks about that, then I will gently mention that it is a pilot certificate. But, of course, we can go back to thingy if you like.