Flying a plane is very easy. In fact, if you can drive a manual transmission car, you can easily fly a plane. Being a pilot, however is a little bit harder. It takes a level of committment and maturity that is seldom seen in learning to drive.
As for being you, cute and female, none of those things should detriment you in your quest to become a pilot. In the US, you can fly solo at 16, and get your license at 17.
If you are really interested, go to www.beapilot.com where you can get a coupn for a reduced price flight lesson. Then use the webist to find a flight school near you and take an introductory flight lesson. It usually lasts about a half hour, and you get to fly the plane yourself. Most people say that this flight was the deciding factor in them wanting or not wanting to learn to fly.
As a flight instructor, I have seen firsthand the differences in male and female pilots. I have to say that females are usually more detail oriented, and thus can usually learn the basic material faster than men can who just like to fly for the sake of flying.
Good luck.